This summer, you may be seeing older relatives and in-laws at various family events. Instead of rolling your eyes or tuning them out, listen to their stories. Ask for details. Write down what they’re saying – or better yet, record them (audio only, or video!). You don’t need fancy equipment – a webcam or the camera/recorder in your phone will work just fine.

Think about the questions you have for them about their lives – where they lived, what they did all day, what they ate. Ask what made them happy, what made them sad, and what made them angry. Ask about their favorite books or games as children, their favorite pastimes as adults. Ask about their first kiss, first date, and first love. Some great family stories come from earlier generations.

Thinking ahead * If you get a recording, make copies for Christmas/birthday gifts for other family members. These are cherished gifts and take more time than money. Plus, your computer-savvy kids can help.

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